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Askfirmation® Book + Deck Set
A Gentler Way to Shift Your Mind — When You’re Too Tired to Force It
You can feel that something in your life is out of alignment…
but you’ve been pushing past that feeling for a long time.
And the moment you try to “fix your mindset,”
your system quietly resists.
If affirmations have ever felt fake, forced, or exhausting…
that’s not a failure.
That’s burnout.
You’re Not Doing It Wrong —
Your System Is Protecting You
Burnout changes how your mind works.
It becomes:
- Less tolerant of pressure
- Less responsive to force
- Less willing to pretend something feels true when it doesn’t
So when you say:
“I am calm”
your system answers:
“No, you’re not.”
And now you’re not just overwhelmed —
you’re arguing with yourself.
This is where Askfirmations® come in.
A Different Way In
Askfirmations® don’t tell your mind what to believe.
They ask your mind to participate.
Instead of forcing a statement, you shift the doorway:
→ “Why am I learning to feel calmer in a way that actually supports me?”
No pressure.
No performance.
No internal argument.
Just space.
And when space opens…
your system begins to move.
Why This Works (Especially After Burnout)
After burnout, force stops working.
You can’t think your way out.
You can’t override your way through.
You can’t “positive mindset” your nervous system into safety.
But your mind will respond to one thing:
INVITATION
Askfirmations®:
- Bypass resistance without fighting it
- Reduce mental pressure immediately
- Create curiosity instead of control
- Allow new thoughts to form without force
This is not mindset work.
This is working with yourself instead of against yourself.
What’s Included
The Askfirmation® Book
This is not a step-by-step manual telling you how to think.
It’s a grounded, real-world explanation of:
- Why affirmations often fail — especially when you’re exhausted
- How questions naturally shift thought patterns
- How to create Askfirmations® that actually land in your body
- A curated set of Askfirmations® to begin immediately
This book meets you where you are —
not where you think you should be.
The Askfirmation® Deck (44 Cards)
Created for the moments when your brain feels full
and you don’t want to “figure anything out.”
Each card is designed to:
- Interrupt overthinking
- Soften mental pressure
- Create clarity without overwhelm
- Support real-life emotional moments
Use it:
- In the morning before your day begins
- When your thoughts start spiraling
- During journaling
- Or in the middle of a hard moment
No ritual.
No rules.
No extra effort.
Who This Is For
This set is for the woman who:
- Has tried mindset work and feels worn out by it
- Knows she’s capable but feels mentally stuck
- Is spiritually aware but emotionally tired
- Wants change without pushing harder
- Needs something that works on real days — not ideal ones
If that sentence made you pause for a moment…
you may be closer to burnout than you realize.
What Changes
Not dramatically.
Not overnight.
But noticeably.
You begin to:
- Think with yourself instead of against yourself
- Feel less pressure in your own mindM
- Move through stuck thoughts more easily
- Experience clarity without forcing it
And most importantly —
you stop turning your mind into another place you have to perform.
Final Word
You don’t need better thoughts.
You need a way to stop fighting the ones you have.
Askfirmations® create that shift — quietly, steadily, and in a way your system can actually receive.
Ask.
Listen.
Let it soften.
→ Get the Askfirmation® Book + Deck
Bundle Details
Includes:
Askfirmation® Book
44-card Askfirmation® Deck
Offered together for $17 exclusively on MereLaVie.com
A small entry point.
A surprisingly powerful shift.
What others are saying:
I have been told to do affirmations for years, supposedly to say them a million plus times to convince our monkey minds that I am worthy, wealthy, slim, etc. Of course all they ever did was poke my ego to say, who you? No way. Try again sweet pea. My ego can be very insulting. Sound familiar? Then I discovered Angel Chatter Askfirmations? Askforwhat?
Christine Alexandria was brilliant when she came up with asking positive questions instead of negative ones.
And they are based in science. Our brains are designed to look for answers. The beauty of the Askfirmation cards is that I can pick a card, read the Askfirmation and I do not have to come up with an answer. My brain is busy looking for a positive solution as I go about my day. And very often, at some point an idea comes to mind that is the perfect answer for me.
So instead of asking why should you purchase these cards, ask instead why not?
Barbara Patterson
www.angelartbybarbara.com
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I met you on Sunday in Allentown, PA for the MUM Expo. I learned about Askfirmations. Today while having teeth drilled and temporary crowns put in I repeatedly asked 'Why does the noise of the drill relax me so much?' In an attempt to lower my anxiety. Even with multiple novacane shots, the sound of the drill would always raise my anxiety making me clench my muscles which would add to the length of time in the chair.
The Askfirmation did an amazing job! Leaving me extremely relaxed comfortable and making the whole experience a real breeze!
Thank you, thank you, thank you to the angels and you!
A.P.~Pennsylvania
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I just taught my Yin Yoga class this morning based on "How is it so easy to Breathe". By the end of the class the tension and restlessness had melted away into EASE. Very fun to watch it all unfold. 29 people experienced the power of Askfirmations.
H. Austin - Texas
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